Let Your Work Speak For You

One of the things that folks do that gets under my skin is brag! I absolutely cannot stand when people go on and on about themselves. Boasting about what they have done and showing off about who they know. I am not talking about networking, where you say “this is the service I provide, how can we partner together and move to the next level”. On the contrary it seems like so many people feel like they have to advertise or sell themselves these days. I can see if you are at a job interview but folks are bragging and pushing their agenda on folks at dinner parties, at luncheons, at social events or get together at folks homes. What I believe it all boils down to is that we are all so busy trying to fit into the “RIGHT” circle, you know THE clique, that we will do whatever we have to, to get in with the IN crowd. So many of us are not firmly planted in who we are that we have this need to fit in. However I believe if you are meant to be in a certain group of people you will naturally belong. You don’t have to make yourself fit into anywhere or anything. We should all allow people to love us just as we are, unique and different. After all God didn’t use a cookie cutter to make us. So my desire is that we each can focus on being the person that God created us to be.

You see God is not impressed by what we have done and who we know. He wants to know your heart and that is definitely what is the symbol of womanhood that I have grown up with and I heard my mother talk about her, my grandmother talk about her and even my Pastor make reference to when he described the in the Proverbs 31 woman. They have described the Proverbs 31 woman like this, she is a woman who is not worried about looking good, she is concerned with getting done what she needs to get done. She is a woman that knows that all that comes to her comes because she has worked hard for it. Matter of fact, people define you not by what you say but more about what you do and who you are. As my mother used to say ‘actions speak louder than words.” So if that is the case, than we should all allow our actions to speak for us! Sure I know that everyone wants to be liked. The difference is when you have confidence in who you are, then you know that if you did not get accepted in any clique, club or organization that it simply means that, that group of people did not align with who you are and you don’t let that deflate your ego. After all, the people you meet that boast and brag are all puffed up. They are full of themselves and have a huge ego. However I have to tell you that feeling from a huge ego is only temporary. It does not last as it does not come from who you are at your core. It’s almost like those that feel the need to brag are looking for an outside answer to an inside calling. On top of that no one really wants to be bothered with folks that talk about themselves all the time so you end up not belonging to that group anyway. Simply because you talked yourself up TOO much!!!!

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Nicole Roberts Jones is known as “The Inner Catalyst” for her ability to draw out what’s best in YOU. As the creator of the Find Your Fierce Formula, Nicole works with women to not only discover what makes them tick at a deep level but to help them Turn Big Passion Into Big Profits. As both a content development & personal development coach, Nicole works alongside Lisa Nichols as the Director of Development at Motivating the Masses and as a national motivational speaker, Nicole’s energized and thought-provoking workshops will push you into your highest self. To learn more visit her website at www.NicoleRobertsJones.com