State Vs. Style
Today, I want to address something very near and dear to me. State vs style, meaning the state of your hair versus the style of your hair. Many women who choose to return natural do so based on the style of hair they’ve seen. Now, I really think women should be inspired by styles. However, I don’t think that should be the reason why people return natural. The reason I say that is because they will be highly disappointed. For the most part.
When I first returned natural, it was under the assumption that my hair would twist the way all these women had their hair twisted. I watched the videos with excitement and couldn’t wait to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I was sadly disappointed. I didn’t understand that literally every detail of my hair was different from others. Sure I know about textures and no two are the same. I just thought that surely, someone with similar texture would have similar results. Well, that’s not the case either. Early in my journey, I learned that I needed to fall in love with the state of my hair. The way my hair looks when it’s freshly washed and has no product in it, is where I need to start.
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We are in a different space when we return natural. In that space, find your peace. Make peace with your beauty. Make peace with the way you were created and rock with it. Love your natural state so you can enjoy your natural style.